A man in this world is known by his actions, and everyone’s actions are actually related to thoughts in minds. And thoughts reciprocate the behavior of other people we regularly encounter. Today’s talk will be about how we can live in this complex society in an ideal way and in spite of being very busy, we can overcome some difficulties by using some precautionary measures. How can we make our way of life be stylish and perfect? If you want to be a successful professional and entrepreneur, you must remember the following things;
- Respect Yourself;
This is the first thing that makes you comfortable and confident. Always put yourself first and take care of yourself. Deal with your cleanliness. Dress well. Utilize a decent fragrant aroma. The shoes, dress, and accessories must be suited for your routines, i.e., casual and function-specific. Shave must be on a daily basis and hair color also must be regular whenever needed. The toothbrush must be two times a day. All these things make you relax during your daily routines.
- Never lie to yourself:
Allah Almighty has endowed every human being with the ability to know and understand the truth about himself and it is an indisputable fact that every human being has such a sixth sense which keeps him aware of himself. Never hate, cheat, underestimate, oppress, and be dishonest to yourself. You will know that everything is wrong and right only when you will not make yourself helpless or stupid. A negative mind will never give a positive life. So always use this blessed power of knowing and understanding about reality.
- Don’t let you in others hand:
You are not a toy in anybody’s hand. You are your own life driver, don’t let anyone steal your chair. Always remember that respect should be the foundation of any relationship in your life. Hypocrisy and duplicity are everywhere and hypocrites always try to control skillful persons. And true honest, intelligent peoples are easy prey of these peoples. So be clever and don’t let anybody control you.
- Avoid fake people:
Give no time to fake and negative people. Because fake people lead to overthinking that kills you psychologically. Your life is disturbed by the violence of bad people. Your disturbed mind is the ultimate weapon against you that defeats you in battle. You learn a lot about people when they don’t get what they want from you.
- Live with true people:
Understanding is a much deeper thing than any kind of knowledge. there are many people who know you, but there are very few who understand you. So keep the company of those who are positive and not only know but understand about you. Positive people also have negative thoughts but they just don’t let those thoughts grow and destroy them. They always try to strengthen their relationships. They compete positively and they are not backdoor lovers and give no harm to their colleagues and friends.
- Don’t share your weaknesses:
This world has no time to notice your tears and no one notices your sadness or your pain. But everyone in this world notices your mistakes. This world suffers a lot due to sharing of information with those which we know as true friends. The silence of good people makes them stronger. Travel your life journey and don’t tell your plan to anyone. Live a true life by making progress and don’t your roadmap with anyone because most people ruin beautiful things.
- Don’t grieve:
Ups and downs come and go in this world. As far as I’m concerned, there is always a time in the life of every human being when he is faced with a situation from which it seems impossible to get out. But there is always a solution to every problem in this world. Never be sad, just pray to Almighty Allah and if you try, you will get out of every difficulty. Griefs and sorrows weaken man mentally and physically. Old age and disease are the cause of this misery of sorrow.
- Be patient:
Never rush into anything. Remember that, “haste makes wastes”. Sometimes your urgency leads you into the blind path and point of no return. But when you are slow and steadily walking through any road, you can easily make your U-Turn. Work hard, stay disciplined and be patient. Your time will come.
- Never be a permanent:
Never make a permanent decision based on a temporary emotion. Sometimes it happens that makes you emotional. It’s the people and things that come to your mind when you hear about them. But you have followed to rules and don’t take any step by being in emotions. Always be flexible that makes you comfortable.
- Keep quite in your anger:
When you are angry be silent. Stay well-mannered and disciplined. If anything, happen that you don’t like, then first understand, realize and finally react. Remember that the first method to estimate the intelligence of a leader is to look at them in anger. You have your loved ones also that surround you. Find them collaborate with them and face every challenging condition without being gone in the hyperexcited state.
Remember that sometimes, you will be ignored until you’ll be needed. So, deal with every kind of issue with your own support by your own hand. Embracing your loved ones accurately kills depression, relieves anxiety, and strengthens the immune system. Don’t disappoint with the attitude of people because if you feed an animal for one day, that animal will remember you for a whole year but when you feed a human for a whole year they will forget before one day. So be yourself, live yourself and embrace success yourself, the success will be definitely yours.